Isn't it wierd how we define ourselves by our relationships? How one can think that they are less of a person if they do not have an exclusive relationship? Many people have one huge fear that they will never find 'that' relationship, that 'love' that is supposed to fill that void that is in their heart. Is that void there because they do not have that relationship or is it there because of insecurity etc.? Relationships can make lovers crazy, can be abusive, can be hurtful, can be heart-ach, in the same right they are also: helpful and healing. There is really no point to this rambling, but just a few thoughts before I send myself off to somewhere in dreamland.